Lifestyle

 By Amanda Thomason  December 7, 2021 at 3:20pm

Since August, after American and allied forces left, an economic crisis has taken hold in Afghanistan. Many families have been pushed to make impossible decisions in the interest of staying alive, selling off their daughters in order to feed the rest of their families.

A recent report by the Integrated Food Security Phase Classification (IPC) estimated that over 20 million people in Afghanistan will “face emergency levels of acute hunger” by March, and that three million children under 5 years old are currently acutely malnourished, according to CNN.

“The international community is turning its back as the country teeters on the precipice of man-made catastrophe,” Dominik Stillhart, director of operations for the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC), told CNN.

“Afghan young girls (are) becoming the price of food,” Mahbouba Seraj, leading Afghan women’s rights activist, added. “Because otherwise their family will starve.

“Usually there is a lot of misery, there is a lot of mistreatment, there is a lot of abuse is involved in these things … Some of them can’t take it. They mostly die pretty young.”

Technically, it’s illegal for girls to marry if they’re younger than 15, but that doesn’t stop the exchanges from being made, especially in the face of starvation.

Pressed for food and money, father Abdul Malik resorted to selling off his young daughters as child brides just so the rest of his family could eat.

He’d already sold a 12-year-old daughter into marriage, but in October he made the crushing decision to sell off his 9-year-old daughter, Parwana, who had hoped to continue her education and become a teacher.

“We are eight family members,” he told CNN. “I have to sell to keep other family members alive.”

He’d tried other routes, and admitted to feeling guilty and ashamed. He’d traveled in search of work. He’d borrowed large sums of money. His family had begged. But still they suffered.

“Of course, I was angry, I fought him, and I cried,” mother Reza Gul, 27, who was sold into marriage herself at 13, said. “He said that he didn’t have any option.”

Qorban, 55, offered to buy the child as his second wife. He gave her father roughly $2,200 worth of land, sheep and cash, promising to treat Parwana “like family.”

“My father has sold me because we don’t have bread, rice and flour,” Parwana said at the time. “He has sold me to an old man.”

The trade was made. Things did not go well.

“They treated me badly,” Parwana said. “They were cursing me. They were waking me up early and making me work.”

Parwana’s story circulated, stirring up anger and urgency amongst readers, and within two weeks Parwana was back home and Qorban had gone into hiding after receiving excoriation.

Thanks to the help of the organization Too Young To Wed, mother Reza Gul, Parwana and her five other siblings were whisked away from the camp in Badghis province they’d called home for four years.

Their father stayed behind, but he appeared to be relieved that his family would finally be well cared for.

“We are happy that Parwana is rescued,” Abdul Malik, who still owes Qorban the $2,200, said. “We are happy that (TYTW) will help us and they will provide a place for living.”

The mother and her six children were taken to a hotel in Herat and then set up at a safe house run by TYTW.

“This is a temporary solution,” Founder of TYTW Stephanie Sinclair said. “(But) really what we’re trying to do is prevent girls being sold into marriage.

“It is a moral imperative that the international community does not abandon the women and girls of Afghanistan. Every life matters, and the lives that we can save (will) better the experience of their whole family and their community.”

Reza Gul and her children have a new lease on life in the safety and comfort of their new surroundings.

“I’m feeling so happy in this house,” Parwana said. “They gave me a new life.”

“I feel happy and safe here,” Reza Gul added. “My children are eating well since we came, they are playing, and we are feeling happy.”

Amanda holds an MA in Rhetoric and TESOL from Cal Poly Pomona. After teaching composition and logic for several years, she’s strayed into writing full-time and especially enjoys animal-related topics.

As of January 2019, Amanda has written over 1,000 stories for The Western Journal but doesn’t really know how. Graduating from California State Polytechnic University with a MA in Rhetoric/Composition and TESOL, she wrote her thesis about metacognitive development and the skill transfer between reading and writing in freshman students.

She has a slew of interests that keep her busy, including trying out new recipes, enjoying nature, discussing ridiculous topics, reading, drawing, people watching, developing curriculum, and writing bios. Sometimes she has red hair, sometimes she has brown hair, sometimes she’s had teal hair.

With a book on productive communication strategies in the works, Amanda is also writing and illustrating some children’s books with her husband, Edward.

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